Fallen in Love – The first thing to do is to stop measuring his words. Some men from LetmeDate.com can say amazing things to a woman without feeling anything for her. On the other hand, some men won’t say much but they have deep feelings for you nonetheless. So, forget about the words. Check his actions.
- If he’s suddenly happy, especially around you, smiling, joking, laughing at insignificant jokes, cheerful; if his eyes seem to brighten up when they see you and his face puts up the biggest smile when he sees you, well, this is all a cluster of behavioral signs telling you that he loves being with you, even if he does not realize it yet.
- He seems to spend a lot of time with you and he does this happily. He seems to spend less and less time with his friends or work colleagues in order to be with you. He’ll see you even if he’s busy and if he really can’t see you he’ll make sure he can see you some other time (but very soon). He makes sure you don’t spend too much time away from him!
- He thinks about you often and this shows in the little gestures you may notice. For example, he buys you your favorite chocolate drink, or your favorite cake, or something carrying your favorite color. He may cook for you, go out of his way to give you a ride wherever you need to be. She wants to see you happy, comfortable, taken care of. He thinks about you so much, even subconsciously, that he mentions a holiday with you in the future, or something you 2 can do together.
If the above signs show in his behavior towards you, he is definitely in love with you!
Keeping the Romance Alive
Work, parenting, housework, social obligations. The number of things on the average adult’s to-do list is staggering. And often quality time with the spouse or partner falls right off the list. If you want to keep your relationship healthy, however, you’ll find ways to keep the romance in your partnership alive.
While all of us love to be “swept off our feet”, spontaneous gestures of affection are really difficult to come by in today’s ultra-hectic lifestyle. When it comes to this type of gesture, think small; a text message sent just to tell a spouse how wonderful they are. A card mailed to the house where a partner will bring it in, or a note tucked into a briefcase can absolutely make your significant other’s day – if not their week! It really is the thought that counts and these little signs that someone was thinking about you in the middle of THEIR crazy day are truly heartwarming.
You schedule time for doctor’s appointments, put your workouts into your planner, and write the date of the PTA meeting on the calendar. You should also schedule time for romance. Make a date night; hire a sitter, make dinner reservations, and spend some time really talking to your spouse. It doesn’t have to be fancy – sandwiches from the local deli and a blanket at the local park are just as romantic as flowers and champagne, simply because someone thought to make it happen.
Whatever happens, don’t let your relationship languish at the end of your to-do list. Your relationship with your partner is one of the most important things in your life. And you need to remember to keep it alive. It’s an old analogy, but gardens don’t grow without nurturing care, and neither do relationships. You don’t need much extra room in your budget to make sure that your significant other knows how important they are to you. What you do need are some forethought and planning. When you see your relationship blossom and grow. You’ll be glad of the time you spent nourishing that special relationship in your life.